I don’t want to be the most important person you’ve had in your life in a long time.

I don’t want to be the one who has made you feel more; made you feel better than you have in a long time.

I don’t want to mean more to you than anyone has in a long time.

I don’t want to be loved more than anyone you’ve loved in a long time.

I’m selfish, maybe even needy.

I want to be the most important. I want to be the one who matters most. I want you to love me more than you’ve ever loved anyone. I want to be the one you love.

Period and end of story.

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  1. Oh dear. Forgive me, but it does sound like the sort of thing a man would say without realising the significance that it would mean to you. Words often come out of a our mouths without our brains really having had time to think through what we might actually be saying to you (or maybe it’s not thinking through what you might be hearing in those words).

    There is always the chance that I’m an insensitive oaf but I think most men would have thought they were saying something positive and completely not realising how it would be interpreted.

    It’s the sort of situation where, when you explain what you’ve heard to us, it becomes obvious to us – it just wasn’t at all obvious when it left our mouths and we didn’t mean what you heard. Remember we’re aren’t your intellectual equal.

    I’m not disagreeing with you either – I can completely understand how you feel. It’s just that I equally don’t think that’s how J intended to make you feel.

    Sorry if this isn’t helping but ‘period and end of story’ sounds so final.

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